Kick A Habit (tm) and Transform Your Life
Change can be easy when you strongly believe that the benefits of doing something differently are greater than the benefits of staying the same.
Rewrite Your Story
Over the years I have found that all the therapists, coaches, facilitators, transformation writers or consultants in the world are unlikely to help you transform your life into something better until you are ready to rewrite the story of who you are to some degree. The sum total of your actions, thoughts, beliefs and corresponding behaviours and patterns in the circumstance of your life have resulted in your current life experience and habits. If you want something better you will either need to add something or remove something from the mix, interrupt or disrrupt the old patterns, breaking the continuity of your old way of experiencing life to allow for the new.
Perspective and Process
It can be challenging, although it is not impossible, to recognise your own patterns of thought, action and belief that have landed you where you are now. Following either a self directed process of assessment, direction setting , enablement and progress monitoring or being guided through that same process by another, or both, can ease your path. The calibre of your decision to stop something or start something is critical to your success. A half hearted approach is unlikely to lead to the result you are looking for . A decision made with full comittment at your level of self identity is very empowering . These are the big 'I am ' decisions. Start noticing when you say the words "I am" what follows. What is the story that you tell the world and yourself about who you are? Do you want to feel better ? Then its time to create a better story for yourself. The good news is that creating that better story need not be hardwork, it can be enjoyable, creative and a lot easier than you might think especially when you have a process and guidance to help you.
Some Examples of Big 'I Am ' s
I am one of those anxious people or I am feeling better, I am feeling calm.
I am stressed out because of 'them' or 'that' or I am letting go of stress as I go.
I am a smoker or I am a non smoker.
I am a problem drinker or I am in control of alcohol or I am a non drinker.
I am afraid and worried about life or I am enjoying life.
I am wounded by 'their' behaviour or I am in charge of my own happiness.
I am fat and unfit or I am feeling healthier every day.
I am scared to win or I am celebrating my success.
I am useless with money or I am managing my money well.
ApproachThe Kick A Habit tm approach is simple and easy to remember and is based on the premise that your habitual way of responding to your world in some area or multiple parts of your life isnt working for you and that you want to experience something better. It is formed around the word Habit;
A Actions and Accountability
B Beliefs and Behaviours
Whilst the process can be applied to a variety of issues the programs that you can currently sign up for and access include Stop Smoking and Stop Problem Drinking with more scheduled for delivery over the coming months.
Self Directed Formats are available or are soon to available in the following formats;
As an E-Book
As an interactive online training course
As an Evergreen Webinar
In Person Guidance is available;
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